Yesterday marked my two year anniversary as a business owner. Well, I should say, as a successful business owner. I did own another business before Next Generation Training Center, however it was an epic failure. This story I’ll save for another time, because today is all about reflecting on the good, and a few lessons learned along the way. I can’t give you everything that I’ve learned, because I would have nothing to write about after this, and my mission to sit at home and do nothing but blog would be out the window.
As I was going through my day yesterday, I kept receiving messages from LinkedIn congratulating me on my work anniversary. I just dismissed it as that was the day that I created my account. The amount of emails, texts and notifications from various social media outlets I receive on a daily basis would make you think I am actually an important person on this planet; so when receiving all of these messages I didn’t think twice about it. Until it dawned on me… holy shit, today is the two year anniversary of Next Generation Training Center in Randolph, NJ. Maybe this is a good example of why my marriage didn’t last very long… hmm… now it makes sense.
When I finally realized that it was our anniversary, I went through an immediate emotional roller-coaster. How could I have forgotten this? I should have realized it, and congratulated my staff for being rockstars at what they do. I should have thanked all of our members who have made this possible. What kind of terrible business owner am I? Well, when I figured out that I can accomplish all of these things through a simple video posted to Facebook, the big picture became more focused. Most small businesses fail within their first 18 months. We are now on month 24. We’ve accomplished something that only two out of every ten small businesses do. That’s nothing short of inspiring.
Once the regret of forgetting wore off, and I cancelled my order of flowers for everyone (that’s what you’re supposed to do when you forget an anniversary, right?) I learned a valuable lesson. If you don’t slow down on occasion, if you don’t stop to look around and take it all in, you will lose perspective of how successful you are. Success is something that is ever evolving, always changing, and never fully accomplished. However, it is also accomplished everyday in all of our lives. I know what you are thinking, what the fuck is Mike talking about with this confusing contradicting bullshit? Well here it is, in plain English, if you woke up today, you have the potential to be successful. It is as simple as that. You just have to CHOOSE to be successful. You need to realize that success is a term that is defined in an infinite amount of ways. A successful mindset breeds success, and you can say the same thing about a negative mindset.
Being caught up in the daily grind of multi-tasking and trying to get “stuff” done can easily take over your life. In fact, I fell victim of that and it made me forget my work anniversary (thank God for LinkedIn). I’ve learned that it’s important to slow down and reflect on your daily success. Will I ever be happy with where we are at the moment? No. I always want to improve, grow and make a bigger impact. However, that doesn’t mean that at this moment we are not successful. Remember, success breeds success. When you reflect on it daily, you will bring more of it into your life. Don’t ever stop moving forward, but don’t forget where you are at the moment. It’s hard to accomplish more, if you don’t realize your success now.